it puts too much pressure on a man to make him the only source of love and support
a man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results
a woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationship
men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed while women when they feel cherished
not to be needed is a slow death for a men
just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving
it is difficult for a man to listen to a woman when she is unhappy because he feels like a failure
*taken from john gray~ men are from mars, women are from venus =)*