xOxO~

it puts too much pressure on a man to make him the only source of love and support

a man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results

a woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationship

men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed while women when they feel cherished

not to be needed is a slow death for a men

just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving

it is difficult for a man to listen to a woman when she is unhappy because he feels like a failure

*taken from john gray~ men are from mars, women are from venus =)*