WhY WoMeN taLk MoRe THaN MeN??

Psychiatrist professor from California University, San Francisco, United States, Louran Brizendine proved that women are more talkative rather than men. Based on his book ‘The Female Brain’ He stated that women say 20,000 words per day compared than men only 7,000 words daily. This obviously exposed that women talk three times more than men! (ooh really??). Let’s take a look the rationale behind this. @_@

1. To make a relationship

It is a women’s attitude which is like to express whatever in their heart explicitly or implicitly... They tend to share their stories and feelings that prove women talk a lot than men. They will speak out if there any dissatisfaction or any other hatred feelings because conversation and exchanging stories just like an ‘experience’ which convincing and help them to build a relationship with each other. Women learn to trust and know with who they should trust through the communication. Women also talk more because they believe that an efficient communication will never regrets them but gives a comfortable and understandable atmosphere.

Meanwhile men, they are not easy to say what they feel with words even though to the loved one! They love to confess through action. Yea maybe they hold the idiom ‘action speaks louder than words’ (hahaha?). Caring and responsible are good examples of men’s feelings as a sign of their love to their family. =)

2. To resolve problems

When facing with several problems, men will drastically find the way to solve them (oouw how fast?!). They believed that only the right decision will help to solve the conflict. In contrast with women! Women like to tell others their problem because they think by this way they will feel more sigh.. Although unable to solve the problem, the ‘process of talking’ made women identify the problem and more convenient to get the solution! (yea that is truly women.. talk, talk and talk)

3. To ensure the perfect condition

In the context of mother, words are used as a mechanism to guarantee their life is perfect. Mothers will repeat the same thing and ‘talk nineteen to the dozen’ (so called blabbering) in order to make their kids obey their instructions, advices, etc etc… why?? Because they want the best for their children… mum knows best rite? ( I’ve never met a ‘pendiam’ motha or in other word who is not even once membebel to their family. hehehe...)

Thus, don’t judge women are talkative because they are just like that… several reasons why they love to talk and three of them are listed as above =)

** article has been adapted from harmoni ‘feb 08’ magazine and completely translated into English**